Finding Happiness After Infertility: Our Story of Hope

Finding happiness after infertility has been a journey for me and my husband, Evan. For years, we struggled with the heartache of not being able to conceive, and it took a toll on both of us. But through it all, we’ve discovered unexpected joys and a deeper appreciation for our relationship. I’m excited to share our story with you today, in hopes that it may offer comfort and inspiration to others facing similar challenges.

Our Journey with Infertility
Our Journey with Infertility

Want to hear our story in our own words? Check out our video here, or keep scrolling for more insights and reflections.

 

Our Infertility Journey: Years of Trying and Heartache

Finding Happiness in Our Infertility Journey
Finding Happiness in Our Infertility Journey

We tried for a while and did lots of research. That’s what we do; we’re planners. We saw doctors, underwent tests, and I even had exploratory surgery.

I was prescribed a medication to help me get pregnant, but it didn’t work for me. Instead, it made me very emotional and caused a lot of ups and downs. I realized it wasn’t healthy for me, so I stopped taking it.

 

 

 

We consulted a fertility specialist, but she wouldn’t perform the procedure because I was on anxiety medication. I understood her reasoning, but coming off the medication nearly caused a nervous breakdown. It was an incredibly difficult time.

 

We considered further fertility treatments, but there were obstacles. We were older, the cost was a concern, and there was no guarantee it would work. Plus, I struggled with how I would handle the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy. Ultimately, we came to the conclusion that having children naturally wasn’t in the cards for us.

 

Embracing Life After Infertility: Finding Joy as Aunt and Uncle

Finding Joy in Our Life
Finding Joy in Our Life

Reaching that acceptance was a long and painful process. But now, we find joy in other ways. We cherish our time with our nieces and nephews, who call us “Uncle Evan” and “Aunt Lala.” We love being their fun aunt and uncle, and we’re also proud dog parents. Our furry friends bring so much joy into our lives.

Lisa with our nephew and niece.
Lisa with our nephew and niece.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Exploring Alternative Paths to Parenthood: Adoption & Fostering

Adoption was another path we considered, and we were even approached by people who thought we’d be great parents. But those situations didn’t work out. Evan grew up with foster siblings, and the experience of kids coming and going was difficult for him. I also knew the heartache of goodbyes would be too much for me to handle.

 

Healing from Infertility: Discovering Happiness in Unexpected Places

Finding Happiness Together
Finding Happiness Together

Our journey with infertility has taught us that happiness can be found in unexpected ways. I’ve learned the importance of having a partner who is not just a potential parent, but also a best friend. Evan is my best friend, and that’s what has gotten us through the tough times.

 

 

 

Overcoming Infertility Challenges: Hope for the Future

While we’ve made peace with not having biological children, we’re open to exploring other options for the future. I’m seeing a new doctor who is helping me manage my health issues, and we’ve discussed revisiting fertility treatments. It’s a decision we’ll make together, weighing the potential benefits and risks.

 

Sharing Our Infertility Story: Building a Community of Support

I’m sharing our story because I know there are others out there struggling with infertility. It’s a lonely road, but it doesn’t have to be. By sharing our experiences, we can build a community of support and understanding.

Thank you for listening to our story.

With love,

The Glenn Home

If you have any questions or want to share your own experiences, please leave a comment below. We’re in this together!

 

Want to stay connected and learn more about our journey? To learn more about my health and wellness journey, including my experience with the TIF procedure, click here.

Want to stay connected and learn more about our journey?

 

TIF Procedure and GERD Journey: My Reflections and Addressing GERD, Post-Surgery Challenges, and Spousal Support

In July 2020, amidst the challenges of the COVID era, I underwent the Transoral Incisionless Fundoplication (TIF) procedure to address my Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD). Now, nearly three years later, I want to share my TIF procedure and GERD journey with you.

Back in the room after procedure.

After the procedure.

Waiting to go back for the TIF Procedure
Waiting to go back.
Filling out the paperwork for my TIF procedure and GERD journey.
Filling out the paperwork.

If you’re curious about the most recent developments in my recovery, I encourage you to watch our latest video where my husband, Evan, and I discuss the ongoing aspects of life post-TIF. This video provides valuable insights into the physical and emotional aspects of my journey, addressing both positive outcomes and the ongoing considerations post-surgery.

 

GERD & US How We Still Fight It 3 Years Later 

 

For a comprehensive understanding, consider exploring the entire playlist, including pre-surgery videos, the surgery day itself, and the subsequent recovery. Each video captures a different phase of this my TIF procedure and GERD journey and its transformative experience, offering a holistic view. Your curiosity might find answers, and your support is always appreciated. Join us on this informative and supportive exploration of digestive health. 

 

Lisa’s TIF Procedure 

 

Understanding GERD Symptoms

GERD had me struggling with constant throat sensations, dry coughs, and a racing heart. Post-TIF, about 75% of these symptoms have alleviated. However, occasional challenges persist, as highlighted by a recent episode at a restaurant where reflux symptoms resurfaced. 

 

 

Weight Struggles Post-Surgery

Thankful for coffee and no artificial sweeteners.
Thankful for coffee.
5 months post TIF procedure and GERD journey.
5 months post procedure.

Adapting to a liquid and soft food diet for eight weeks post-surgery posed a significant weight challenge. Returning to regular foods led to a struggle with weight regain. My journey emphasizes the importance of listening to your body during recovery. 

 

The Impact of TIF Procedure on Lifestyle and Diet

Returning to regular foods involved stretching the valve, contributing to weight regain. Challenges with artificial sweeteners due to allergies added complexity. Coping with GERD post-surgery involves navigating dietary adjustments and understanding one’s body.

6 months after TIF procedure
6 months after TIF procedure.
3 years after TIF procedure
3 years after TIF procedure

 

Spousal Support in My TIF Procedure and GERD Journey

Evan, my husband, shares his perspective on supporting a loved one through my TIF procedure and GERD journey. Initial reservations transformed into acknowledgment of the positive impact on my well-being. Mutual support and understanding during the recovery period are crucial. 

“It’s always hard to see your spouse go through pain. When it’s GERD, things are not comfortable. You just don’t feel good.”

“Knowing that she’s had this success with it has really been good for us.” 

– Evan

 

 

Specific Challenges and Occasional Reflux Episodes

Specific challenges, like the inability to vomit post-surgery and the impact of a stomach virus, added layers to the recovery process. I also highlight occasional reflux episodes triggered by specific foods like tomatoes and pineapple. 

 

Overall Satisfaction with the TIF Procedure and GERD Journey

Despite the challenges, I express overall satisfaction in my TIF procedure and GERD journey, stating that I would undergo it again. The journey provides insights into the physical and emotional aspects, addressing both positive outcomes and ongoing considerations post-surgery. 

 

Reflections and Looking Ahead

As I reflect on my journey, I recognize the relief from GERD symptoms, but also acknowledge the need for ongoing management. The TIF procedure has been transformative, yet the path post-surgery involves continuous adjustments and awareness. 

 

Conclusion

In sharing my experience, I aim to provide insights for those considering the TIF procedure for GERD. It’s a journey with ups and downs, requiring patience, resilience, and the support of loved ones. If you have questions or want to share your experiences, feel free to leave a comment. Together, we navigate the path to better digestive health. 

 

Connect with Us: Have Questions or Want to Share Your Story?

We’re here for you! If you have questions or simply want to share your own experience, drop us an email at theglenns@theglennhome.com. Find us on Facebook @theglennhome, catch us on Instagram @theglennhome, and make sure to hit the subscribe button on our YouTube channel The Glenn Home. We’re all about sharing our life together to offer insights into Marriage, Family, Relationships, Health and Wellness experiences, and making the most out of life’s adventures. Looking forward to connecting with you!

In our last post, we said that we are a few weeks behind on our posting. This is working out for us, because we have had several things happen that needed our attention and gave us an opportunity to work on something that we have been wanting to do for a while. Read on to find out what has kept us from staying connected and what we want to do to help our community. 

On Saturday, October 26, 2019, a bad storm blew through our area. Some say that it was straight line winds. Some say it was a tornado. Some say it was remnants of a tropical storm from the gulf. Whatever it was, it caused a lot of damage to our area. There were trees blown down all over the county, knocking power lines down, landing on houses and blocking roads. Thankfully, there were no major injuries or fatalities. 

Picture via Humphreys County Sheriff’s Office Facebook Page
Picture via Humphreys County Sheriff’s Office Facebook Page

The pictures above were taken from the Humphreys County Sheriff’s Office Facebook page. This a small sample of damage. There were rooftops blown into trees. Semi trucks blown over while on an interstate bridge. Many people were without power. There may be some still without. We were fortunate to only have one small tree fall in our yard and not cause any damage. However, we were without power for 6 days and nights. Luckily we were able to borrow a generator from a family member, allowing us to keep some lights on , the fridge running, and to cook food. Thank God for family! However, with the power poles and lines down, that meant that the Internet lines to our house were also down. Where we live, even though it is within a cell tower range, the cell signal is terrible at our house because of a large hill blocking its reach to us. On a good day, we may have one bar of 3G service.  When the Internet is out, we are disconnected from the outside world, sort of. Communication was limited to coming into our town and being able to use our cell phones.  I, Evan, worked with my team to ensure that the school system IT infrastructure was ready to go as soon as school resumed. 

I am afraid that we are kind of use to situations like this, and as I said, Lisa and I were very fortunate. This is not the case for many, and still many are in need of help. Lisa and I have been trying to figure out how we can help our community more. We are able use our hands to help by checking on our neighbors and offering our assistance, but this only limits us to those we come across in passing. We have been trying to figure out how we can help more people on a larger scale. This brings me to what we have been working on. We have opened a merchandise store to help support our efforts. You can access the store from the top of this page. Yes, we will benefit from the sale of the products in our store, but the real reason is to give to our community. You can browse and select one or many of the products, currently shirts and hoodies, and the proceeds from your purchase will go toward helping your neighbors with financial needs. Certain items in our fundraiser section, that when purchased, 50% of the proceeds will go toward a non-profit organization that we choose needs help at that time.

shop.theglennhome.com

Our current fundraiser will be going to the Humphreys County Long Term Relief Organization. This organization helps those in our county with monetary and labor needs that are and have been affected by the recent storm in our area. The HCLTRO reaches out to find those that can’t physically clean up and repair their property and then provide the relief that they need to “make their homes a home again.”  If you would like to help them and aren’t able to be a volunteer to help, then a monetary donation will go a long way. They provide furniture, appliances, roof repairs, removal of duct work for HVAC systems, and many other ways to attempt to give relief. That’s just a brief sample of what they do.  If you want to help, you can through The Glenn Home store above. The purchase of one of the “Bless Our Home” shirts (T-shirt, Long Sleeve, and/or Hoodie) will help families that are in need. 

Picture via Trull Family Pharmacy Facebook page.

We have also teamed up with Trull Family Pharmacy. They are a family owned pharmacy in our town, and together with them, are wanting to make the effort even better. They are going to have an anniversary event on Saturday, November 16th to celebrate their one year of being open to the public. Inside their  beautiful store is a gift shop. On that Saturday, they also are going to donate proceeds from sales of their gift shop to help the Humphreys County Long Term Recovery Organization.  We have talked with them since the day they announced their plans of wanting to give back to the community that supports them and came up with this partnership. We will combine our proceeds and present a donation to the HCLTRO.  Both Trull Family Pharmacy, Lisa, and I appreciate your help in our effort to help the neighbors in our community!

Be on the watch for many other fundraisers that we will have in the coming future! 

 

What a busy summer it has been! Yes, I know it is already October and close to Halloween, but we just got back from our annual beach vacation…and that brings Summer to an end for us. If you have followed along on our journey through our social media, YouTube, Facebook , and Instagram, then you have enjoyed some of the fun we have had. Lisa and I do a lot of things together. It may be just the two of us or with the company of family and friends. Life is a journey and it is better when we share it with someone, and even more so when you have a community that you can lean on as you travel through life. 

 

We haven’t kept up our side of the journey.

First, we want to apologize for the lack of posting on this blog and more recently, not uploading our vlogs. I, Evan,  had a technical issue with my computer  and thought that all of the photos and videos that were copied to the editing hard drive were lost. My typical routine is that as soon as we finish with the cameras at the end of the day I copy all of that footage to an editing hard drive on my computer so that it can be fine tuned before being posted/uploaded.  Once it is exported, I then move it to an external storage drive. We had been so busy with work and going on our trips that I had been putting the footage on the drive until I had time to edit it. When the time came for me to start editing, the hard drive was not showing up. I am a computer tech/nerd(25+ years), so it took time to recover the data from the drive, copy it our external back up, purchase a new hard drive, and finally move the recovered footage back to the new drive. Even though we had this issue going on, we continued to keep the cameras rolling and used our external hard drive for storage. Whew! That was a close call.  If you want to learn more about the technical side of how to capture your precious memories, I have separate website and social media platforms to help you learn more about them at casuallysharpmultimedia.com.

 

The reason for the journey.  

Second, let’s be clear. We are not a vain couple who wants to show ourselves to the world in a selfish way. The true reason we do this is to be an example to those who care about having a loving, caring, fun, and meaningful marriage themselves and to build a community that encourages one another. In doing so, the hope is that you will find the posts to be interesting, entertaining at times,  thought-provoking, challenging, encouraging, and conversation starting.

 

 

Onward with the journey.

Third, we have a lot of catching up to do. The technical issue put us behind on our posting. We will be several weeks behind on current activities, but this will allow for us to enjoy the activities and not feel rushed to come home and start editing right away. We also work full-time. With this in mind, we are thinking about making our posting on a regular schedule instead sharing a lot and then being silent for periods of time. We have an idea as to what that schedule will be but don’t want to put it in black and white just yet. Please be patient with us as we get this routine down. 

 

We hope you have had a great Summer as well and that the Fall brings you warm thoughts as the season changes.  If you would like to be on the journey of building a community with us and be involved in our community, please subscribe to this blog, follow us on Facebook, Instagram and subscribe to our YouTube channel!